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Tips For Helping The Kids Through A Storm
Rainbow after beach storm on holiday
There is a few more months to go before the end of this year’s storm season. I’m not complaining about all the rain after such a long drought but the destruction I’m sure we could all do without.
We’ve been lucky. The last big one, the one that sent a mini flood through Brisbane very nearly entered the house. We have terrible drainage out the back of our place. Still very nearly was all we needed.
I really feel for those living at the Gap, I’m sure there would still be loads of families waiting on insurance people and various companies to help get their houses fixed up. I’m certain of it because last October I had a dishwashing accident that is still being sorted out.
It’s our kids though that I feel the most for. A great number of them simply don’t cope with these big storms and can develop a fear of them that sends them into cupboards.
So here are a few ideas to help them and yourselves cope:
- Tell them in a very matter of fact way that a storm is coming. It’s a solid fact that kids mirror their parents and so a big part of them staying calm is by watching how you handle the storm
- Ask them how they feel about storms and discuss your feelings. It makes kids feel safe just feeling like they’ve been heard.
- If you need to tidy up outside ask them to help, giving them something to do or just being involved will help take their minds of it.
- Close up the house windows, doors and curtains if necessary while just casually wandering through the house. Again if you move to quickly that may be enough to set a child into panic mode.
- Be prepared for them to act a bit silly and hand out that extra bit of understanding. Its one way most kids work through feeling a bit anxious.
- Get them to help you locate and set up an area for candles to be lit should the power go out.
During the storm, do your best to distract their attention from what’s going on outside.
You could:
- Have a pretend camp in the lounge room
- Prepare some snacks and have a lounge room picnic
- Play with play dough, pens or paint. Working with hands like this can relieve tension
- Play a favorite move on a lap top computer. If the power is out you’ll hopefully still have some battery life left.
- Read a story, do a puzzle or play Dress up
- Have a toy in reserve that they’ve never seen. New is always interesting.
- Bigger kids might like a scavenger hunt, and even better if the lights go out and they have torches.
- Speaking of torches it may be a good idea to give each child one of their own.
- One of the best ways to cope is to sit quietly and have a cuddle. My 4 year old was terrified of a storm recently and just fell asleep during it in my lap. He slept through the worst of the storm.
Other resources:
Here’s a few links to other sites that may be of use:
I’m sure we will see a few more storms before winter arrives. Let’s just hope they don’t cause to much more damage.
Regards
Glenys
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